Ok, you just finally got the "diagnosis" for your loved one. It's Alzheimer's Disease. Now what? Mom doesn't want to believe it. She's in denial. No matter what the doctor has just explained to her, she doesn't want to believe it. So here are some things you should be doing to be ready to head down this journey with your loved one. Remember, first and foremost, you are not alone! There are people out here that can assist you along this journey who want to help.
--Learn about the disease. Understanding what you may expect will help you feel more confident when creating a care plan that fits your loved one's needs and improv his/her qualilty of life. Learn about lifestyle changes clinically shown to slow the progression of demention.
--Seeking medical treatment to help manage the behaviors and therapies that can help ease symptoms and improve quality of life are available. Talk with the doctor to discuss the right treatment for his/her disease.
--Learn about behaviors of the disease. Aggression, confusion and manipulation are all symptoms of dementia. It can be hard to adjust to these new behaviors. You must come up with your own coping strategies to help you handle your reactions.
--Make your loved one's home a safe place. Remove potential fall hazards, i.e., rugs and electrial cords. Make sure all fire and CO detectors are working. Use technology to help you stay connected and keep track of their whereabouts.
--Most likely a good time to STOP driving. (Blame the doctor) Take the keys away before something happens, don't wait until it is too late.
--Organize all financial and legal matters! This should be done sooner rather than later! Contact a certified financial planner or elder law attorney to be sure you have an updated will, living will and financial and medical power of attorney. Make a list of all bank accounts, tax returns and vehicle titles. The earlier this is done the better. It really should be done BEFORE any diagnosis.
--Plan for the future. As this disease progresses, your loved one will need more assistance. Establish support networks early so you have them available as the disease progresses. Get help from other family members or friends. Learn about home care, respite care, day care or memory care facilities.
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